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When Your Ex Refuses to Get the Message
On the other hand, what if the lover who recently left you calls and says she
wants to see you? Be cautious. If she was so sure that the relationship was
over, what has happened to change her mind? Is it loneliness, boredom, or a true
change of heart? Proceed slowly to find out what she wants. When it comes to
sex, be especially slow and cautious. Sometimes sex with an ex is good because
you're free of commitment or problems, but a roll in the hay won't get you the
love you want. Watch out for "yo-yo" lovers -- the kind who vacillate
between wanting you and wanting freedom. "Why is sex always better after
breaking up?" Sometimes it's easier for couples to have great sex when
their commitment and relationship problems (arguments, miscommunications,
angers) are put aside, and when they have dropped any expectations. Also the
tension of a breakup can seem to intensify passion. It's like the popular song
goes: "The best part of breaking up is making up." But beware of
starting arguments just to fuel your love. <<Back
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