Bring Gifts

Small tokens are a great way to show your interest and make the other person feel good. Avoid large items and expensive things in the beginning. Choose something that the other person likes. Jackie gave Jeff a package of golf balls that he hand mentioned were his favorite, impressing him with not only the gift, but how she had paid attention to what he said (a sure winner in seduction). Jared brought Kristen a snow globe from each of his out-of-town trips after finding out she collects them.

Some examples of thoughtful but non-expensive gifts include a CD from your favorite artist, a souvenir from a city you have visited, a T-shirt from some event you have attended together, or a book that has meaning to both of you. Think of something that he would use or see often (a pen with some inscription, a paperweight for the desk) that would make him think of you.